Relationships are never perfect. Every couple argues, and rough patches are part of life. But when your relationship starts to leave you feeling afraid, small, or unsure of yourself, it may be something more serious.
At Family Crisis Center, we talk to many women who aren’t sure if what they’re experiencing is “really abuse.” Their partner might not hit them but they control the money, threaten to take the kids, or make them feel worthless. Some women live with someone who drinks too much or uses drugs, which makes everything more chaotic and frightening.
- Abuse isn’t always physical. It can look like:
- Being constantly criticized or insulted
- Not being allowed to see friends or family
- Having to ask permission to spend money or leave the house
- Being blamed for everything that goes wrong
- Being manipulated through fear, guilt, or shame
If any of this feels familiar, it’s okay to ask questions. You don’t have to wait for things to get worse. Talking to someone can help you make sense of your situation and decide what’s best for you and your children.
At FCC, we offer confidential support. No pressure, no judgment. We’re here to listen and give you information, whether you’re ready to leave or just need to talk.
Trust your gut. If something feels wrong, it probably is. You deserve a relationship built on respect, not control.
You’re not alone. And you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
